Joyful Habits

Being Mindful of How We Speak

Words are powerful. When we are being mindful of how we speak, we can purposefully choose words that are kind, clear and in line with our truth.

If I am feeling a little low, or if I am being critical of myself and others, I practice ‘focusing on the words I speak aloud’. This always has a way of turning things around and helping me to feel happy and hopeful about the world around me again.

This is a great practice to try out for an entire day, and then grow it from there. Commit to being really mindful of the words you speak out loud for an entire day. If you find yourself about to say something negative or unkind about yourself, someone else or a situation, see if you can stop yourself and turn it around.  Better yet, try to turn what you were about to say into something kind instead.

This can be a bit challenging at first, but not to worry if you slip up throughout the day, don’t use it as fuel to be hard on yourself. This is a practice and you can hit the restart button at any point and move forward from where you are. Sometimes noticing our patterns is all it takes to see where we have room to grow. Realizing we have control in what we give out and how we are impacted by this output can be really empowering.

The messages we spread out into the world is our offering. I can’t think of a better offering to give than to spread kindness and love as often as we can – we are all that powerful.

How might you choose words that are kind and in line with your truth today?

Emily

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Emily Madill

Emily Madill is an author and certified professional coach (ACC), with a BA in Business and Psychology. She is one of Thrive Global’s editors-at-large and a coach at BetterUp. Emily has published 12 titles in the area of self-development and empowerment, both for children and adults. You can find her writing in Chicken Soup for the Soul:Think Positive for Kids; The Huffington Post; Thrive Global; TUT.com; Best Self Magazine; The Muse; MindBodyGreen; Emerging Women; TinyBuddha; Aspire Magazine; and others. Emily has a private coaching practice and an online program, offering courses that support women to create lasting habits around self-love, self-awareness and all things related to time and weekly planning. She lives on Vancouver Island, Canada, with her husband, two sons and their sweet rescue dog Annie. Learn more at: emilymadill.com

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